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If Your Partner Has Bad Money Habits, Here’s What You Should Do

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In marriage, money issue do not just affect finances, it can also affect your relationship and if care is not taken, it may ruin the marriage.

According to a survey published in Independent in January 2018, money worries are the leading cause of marriages falling apart.

Some of the respondents of the survey blamed their partners for their money worries, accusing them of overspending or failing to budget properly.

Should you find yourself in a situation like this, here’s what you need to do.

  • Do financial plannings together

Money undeniably brings a level of happiness and satisfaction

Money undeniably brings a level of happiness and satisfaction
Money undeniably brings a level of happiness and satisfaction

If you feel your partner has a bad money habit, you should not leave him/her out of the financial planning.

You need to work together when it comes to your finances. Know your net worth and create a financial plan and a budget.

Because your partner has bad money habit does not mean you should not work together when it comes to the finances. Always make sure your partner is involved.

  • Pay off debt

Debt is not good for your relationship and financial goals.

Debt is not good for your relationship and financial goals.
Debt is not good for your relationship and financial goals.

In marriage, if your partner has debts to pay, you automatically inherit the debt also. To avoid your finances getting destroyed by your debt as a couple, you need to find ways to get out of debt.

  • Always have the money talk

Whatever money issue you have, talk about it.

Whatever money issue you have, talk about it.
Whatever money issue you have, talk about it.

If you feel your partner has bad money habits, and you think it might be an issue, instead of overlooking or keeping silent over it, you should have the money talk before the bad money habit destroys your finance and also your relationship.

Let your partner know there is an issue and explain why the bad money habits are affecting your finance as a couple.

  • Do not give up on your partner

Never give up on your partner, help him/her to get better with money.

Never give up on your partner, help him/her to get better with money.
Never give up on your partner, help him/her to get better with money.

If your partner admits to the fact that they have bad money habit, then you should not give up on them. Find ways you can help him/her improve and get out of such bad money habits.

Check the progress of your partner with the finances. If there is no improvement at all, then you should talk to a financial advisor and a marriage counsellor.

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Signs That Your Relationship Is Going Down The Drain

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You have been so in love with your partner that your friends are envious, been so good to each other that argue less than compatriots. However, of late you don’t understand the turn taken by the relationship. According to experts, if your seeing signs such as these ones then consider your relationship done.

He or she is constantly annoyed of you
Your partner used to be very cheerful and enthusiastic spending time with you however not the case of late, he or she is very moody and it feels like he or she is angry with you but you don’t what you did wrong.

Limited communication

You used be that couple that told each other everything no matter the extent and magnitude, however, you feel neglected and ignored, your partner says less and would rather do something else rather than talk to you, he or she is always distracted when your talking to them and it feels forced.

Escalating arguments

According to experts, arguments are the most healthy way to solve issues and in fact it’s deemed natural for couples to argue and fight, however, of late arguments and fights are rather prevalent and quickly turn physical even violent that even minor issues could escalate into the biggest fight.

You think he or she is cheating.

You trusted your partner 100% and quickly laughed off any rumors in fact any one who knew you as a couple could downgrade the rumors. However, it’s not the case any more, rumors are so often, he or she has become very secretive midnight calls, over passworded phone is and he or she is always asking you for privacy.

He or she avoids skin ship

Way back, you were the most envied couple as you had episodes of PDIs (Public display of Intimacy) kissing in club, walking hand in hand and couldn’t seem to keep each others hands off each other however, that doesn’t happen any more, it seems like he or she is avoiding skinship, touches you less and less and it feels like its uncomfortable.

No sex

This is a deal breaker, u haven’t had sex in like forever yet way back, you had sex every time you were behind closed doors. Yes, there is some healthy sexual tension in every relationship. However, you feel it’s not the case, he or she is always giving excuses and they can’t seem to end.

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How Miss Karamoja Ayen Is Fighting To Take Karamojong Kids Back Home

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By Samuel Frencha

Miss Tourism Karamoja 2018, Emily Ayen, over the weekend gave back to the street kids staying in Katwe Surbub as part of her move to lure them back to Karamoja.

In partnership with ‘Bring A Smile’ a non governmental charity agency created by youth from different parts of the country, she managed to offer some food stuff, sanitary pads and other basic materials to the young kids plus participating in general cleanliness activities.

Miss Karamoja Emily Ayen (middle) during her charity in Katwe

The reigning Miss Tourism Karamoja, who hails from war torn apart Northern Uganda, says the goal of this initiative is to have a smiling generation of young ladies achieve their dreams amidst the limited resources.

“We  want to be a rising sun on the landscape of a place we call home and take good care of it by making people smile within and else where”Ayen asserted.

Emily, who deeply interacted with some of the kids unfolded that some of them have been victims of child trafficking and have found themselves with no choice but to resort to begging and commercial prostitution as a way of raising income to help their families.

And she purports that through charity, a difference can be made.

I believe that giving charity to the Karamojongs back home will give them no reason to come to the city to beg and also those in the city when they see people at home receiving more than what we offered them will be motivated to go back home.

In the long run, i also want to support the young ladies to take part in craft making. Karamoja beads are so beautiful that if they can make many of them, they will not only earn a living but will also become occupied to think of commercial sex as an option” – Ayen said.

She urged for support from well wishers towards her fundraising activities which she reckons are aimed at changing lives of these kids.

For instance this Easter, we intend to have a “Tour Karamoja Educate A Child Trip” aimed at fundraising tuition for the children we interacted with and are willing to go back to school. We also intend to conduct a cleaning campaign too because health is paramount and above all we want to put and end to the trafficking of our people for labour and sex that has become rampant” – She said.

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Pastor Lukau Admits Resurection Of Dead Man Was Stage Managed

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Controversial South African preacher Alph Lukau has confessed that the resurrection of a dead man was stage managed.

Alph Lukau addressed his Alleluia International Ministries church for the first time on Sunday since a video emerged of a man being resurrected and sitting up in a coffin.

According to Eyewitness News, Lukau told his congregation that miracles are not appreciated.

“When we speak about miracles, we are talking about something that has gone beyond the rationalizations of what we accept as norms.”

Pastor Lukau regretted the whole ordeal in an interview with Power FM’s Drive host, Thabiso Tema.

“Before entering the premises of the church, the coffin began to shake, meaning the person was alive. I am really sorry for the misrepresentation of facts, the man was not dead and has never been in the mortuary as we earlier said,” Mr. Lukau explained.

At the time when the scandalous resurrection occurred, Lukau said he was on his routine duty of preaching the gospel like any other Sunday when he was interrupted and told that a dead man in a coffin was brought to the church.

“We are the house of God and I’m just a pastor serving in the house of the Lord. But I am sorry that we didn’t tell people the truth in the first place,” he added.

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